26 years down,plenty to go.

Today I turned 26 and don’t feel any different then being 25,24,23 or 22. Whether or not that is a good thing is still to be determined.

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TMI Tuesday #5

whole lotta love, love

1. What makes you feel unloved?

Being the first one to call, text, or email someone all the time. Going months without any of my family checking on me to make sure im ok.
2. What is the one act that a person can do that makes you feel loved?

Bring me food when I least expect it. 😋
3. What kind of music do you find romantic?

90s babymaking music 😝
4. What do you find utterly unromantic?

Getting me a gift after everything was picked over. Rap music during sex 🥺

5. What thing did you find out about your significant other that you decided to look past and go for a relationship?

Drinking. Lord he can out drink a whale.

Bonus: In your life, is romance dead?

Yes, soo dead. I strongly feel like people have to be taught to be romantic and im clearly not a good teacher.

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Time Loop

 

What causes the pull to be so strong? Why is it called history if we are still doing it and will continue doing it? You know how we look back on our past and attempt to learn from it and get nowhere? It is the stubborn part of us that wants so badly for things to workout in our favor. It is to the point what we have known, is what we now know, and will always know.

Basically it comes down to simply being comfortable with someone. Is love even an option anymore?
A close friend tells me that although her ex has cheated on her with the girl he is now with she still sleeps with him. The crazy thing is he was doing that with his first baby mama. She tells me that she is ready to build a family but is stuck on him. So I kindly tell her that she can’t build a family with someone new if she is stuck on someone else. “Seriously though how is that even fair to the new guy you are trying to be with now.” long story short the conversation goes on for hours and I get and I get nowhere with her. Months went by and she kept sleeping with her ex while he was with someone else and praying that she would be able to get over him one day. I sat back like, “So how about those cowboys” because that is a normal conversation changer like the weather. Only for her ex in the end to be the one to finally call it quits and stopped sleeping with her and tries the loyal thing with his current girlfriend. 

We are so smart yet so dumb for our own good. Damaged and in the loop they call “history”. So I ask again, “why is the pull so strong?” I blame love songs, poems, and movies for filling our heads with this happy ever after. That famous “girl talk” that we give each other and say well if you are loyal to him he will come back. UGH! Someone get me a bucket I think I am going to lose my lunch. We sit around hoping for a different outcome although we keep doing the same thing.


A time loop

TMI Tuesday #4

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The State of Happy

  1. Do you like where you live or do you wish you could move?

I wish that I could move because my boyfriend and I live in a one bedroom with the amount of stuff that could fit in a 2 bedroom. The fact we have stuff in a storage as well is annoying. Oh not to mention I haven’t paid a pet deposit yet have both my dogs here. The town is fine, we just need a house with a yard for the dogs.

2. No matter what life throws at me, I believe that I can deal with it. Agree or Disagree?

Sadly no, im not good at dealing with everything that comes my way.

3. A dear friend is stuck in an unhappy relationship. What advice would you give to the friend to cope–how can they make lemonade out of lemons?

Communication is the key. Meet in the middle and try to be understanding.

4. Nothing of value can be learned from failure. True or False?

Well hell thats not true. We live and we learn, meaning we learn from our mistakes. If you haven’t learned anything than you are probably still making the mistake.

5. Even if you are sure about your ultimate choice, do you still ask others for advice before making an important or risky decision?

No, I say sooo this is what im going to do. I don’t like to confuse someone into thinking my choice is changeable.

Bonus: What is the sweetest or rewarding moment in your life?

Getting promoted to General Manager after 3 days of the new ownership taking over.

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TMI Tuesday #3

Year 2018 has come to an end. How was the year for you? Let’s take a look this TMI Tuesday.

1. Daily rituals. Do you have any that you will abandon in the new year? Will you begin new daily rituals? If yes, what? There aren’t any daily rituals that I will be getting rid of this year. Every night before bed I want to finish at least one entry publish or not. At least get the story finished.

2. What significant relationship improved the most? The relationship with my boyfriend. Ive been understanding him a lot more.

3. What relationship in your life deteriorated? None, I try to keep in contact with everyone.

4. What do you wish you had done more of in 2018? How do you plan on doing more of that in 2019? Vacations trips, events with my boyfriend. I plan on getting an account open for vacation trips.

5. What important person in your life needs more of your time? Will you give it? My dad. I feel like I dont go visit as much. Hmmm only time will tell.

Bonus: How can you redesign your evenings to bring more restful “you” time to the end of your day?

Idk I guess if I had an answer to that id be well rested by now. At the same time of saying that im not stress anymore than the average young adult trying to figure out finances. When not thinking about bills im like a zin master 😁

Happy New years everyone!!! 🥂

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TMI Tuesday #2

Random shit

1. Which do you make more of phone calls or text messages?
Text messages, i work at a call center so if its not important I avoid calls.

2. Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Yes, so things come off clearly and I don’t forget anything. Its like a 2 min rehearsal nothing to serious.

3. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
Movies, food, and music.

4. Name three things about which you and your partner completely disagree and often causes arguments.
Social skils, family, and How to run a restaurant.

5. 74 percent of couples bought a brand new mattress when they began their relationship. As you embark on a serious relationship would you request your significant another buy a new mattress or would you buy a new mattress if the s.o. asked you to do so?
In a heart beat. I love shopping!!! The trick is getting him to let me replace his couch tho…

Bonus: If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about your future, what would you want to know?
Will I be surrounded by family every holiday.

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