1 year anniversary!!!

🥂 New year, new Achievements!!! Can’t wait to see what this year is going to bring for my blog! Its going to be a blogtastic year!!!🤪


TMI Tuesday #3

Year 2018 has come to an end. How was the year for you? Let’s take a look this TMI Tuesday.

1. Daily rituals. Do you have any that you will abandon in the new year? Will you begin new daily rituals? If yes, what? There aren’t any daily rituals that I will be getting rid of this year. Every night before bed I want to finish at least one entry publish or not. At least get the story finished.

2. What significant relationship improved the most? The relationship with my boyfriend. Ive been understanding him a lot more.

3. What relationship in your life deteriorated? None, I try to keep in contact with everyone.

4. What do you wish you had done more of in 2018? How do you plan on doing more of that in 2019? Vacations trips, events with my boyfriend. I plan on getting an account open for vacation trips.

5. What important person in your life needs more of your time? Will you give it? My dad. I feel like I dont go visit as much. Hmmm only time will tell.

Bonus: How can you redesign your evenings to bring more restful “you” time to the end of your day?

Idk I guess if I had an answer to that id be well rested by now. At the same time of saying that im not stress anymore than the average young adult trying to figure out finances. When not thinking about bills im like a zin master 😁

Happy New years everyone!!! 🥂


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TMI Tuesday #2

Random shit

1. Which do you make more of phone calls or text messages?
Text messages, i work at a call center so if its not important I avoid calls.

2. Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Yes, so things come off clearly and I don’t forget anything. Its like a 2 min rehearsal nothing to serious.

3. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
Movies, food, and music.

4. Name three things about which you and your partner completely disagree and often causes arguments.
Social skils, family, and How to run a restaurant.

5. 74 percent of couples bought a brand new mattress when they began their relationship. As you embark on a serious relationship would you request your significant another buy a new mattress or would you buy a new mattress if the s.o. asked you to do so?
In a heart beat. I love shopping!!! The trick is getting him to let me replace his couch tho…

Bonus: If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about your future, what would you want to know?
Will I be surrounded by family every holiday.


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Happy TMI Tuesday!

California king

Most people think or better yet listen to music as a way of expressing themselves. If you had to listen to the music that someone likes or even plays over and over there is a message in it.

I’ve slept on a California king bed before and it takes up the whole room leaving enough room for a dresser. If you have ever seen this bed you would know that four adults could sleep side by side with no problem. Rihanna choose to make a song using this bed as a mental image as to how far apart her and her spouse have grown apart.
Unfortunately this song happens to be the song that my boyfriend chooses to play over and over on his guitar hero. If you are in a relationship this is not a song you want your spouse playing over and over when their drunk. He tells me that depending on how our night has gone determines how he feels about the song. Other night he just likes her voice and the melody. Just to give you a idea of how often the song is played, his current score on guitar hero live is 107,001. I refuse to believe that I was being annoying that night, he had three too many shots and replayed the song 11 times. If you think I’m kidding sorry to say I’m not, Hell I counted! In that moment I chose to tell myself that he wanted a easier song to master. Crazy thing tho is after playing a song more than two times the colors start to blend and one hand stops moving causing me to miss keys.

The song to my boyfriend however is his way of telling me that we don’t click like we use to. He loves me but I don’t understand him or what he was trying to say. A solution to this is to let him explain to me what he meant or even better take the guitar and play a different song myself lol. A relationship is not easy, it takes time (a lot) and understanding. The music that a person listens to explains so much sometimes withoutthem ever having to say anything themselves. Either the music explains how they currently feel or a fantasy world they wish they could disappear too.
Lets be honest I’m a work in progress when it comes to trying to understand better.

TMI Tuesday #1

Contemplation. Life. These are the questions, TMI Tuesday questions.

Life and Living

1. If happiness was a currency, what kind of work would make you rich? Being an adoption worker so I can help families become complete. 👪👩‍👦‍👦👩‍👧‍👧👨‍👧‍👦👨‍👨‍👦‍👦👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

2. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing? Currently settling while I complete my degree. 😒

3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently? Wouldnt bother with a degree at 25 thats for sure. I would enjoy life more by trying different foods and going to visit family instead of putting it off. I would have my own family by now. 👵🏾

4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? My worries are the same to me. If im doing things right its because its the right thing.🤯

5. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be? Don’t Beg anyone to stay. 🙅🏾‍♀️

Bonus: When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? No im more about action. 😋


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Happy TMI Tuesday!


Ask Me Anything!!! Q&A Part 1

Thank you three for playing along with me!!! it was fun to answer the questions and I will admit I did have to think hard on a few of the answers. I enjoy reading each of your blogs, pay no mind to the lack likes I give. My name would pop up all down each of your feeds if I liked every one of your post that I’ve read so far. 🙂

 Bottomless Coffee

    1. What is your goal and what are you doing to achieve that goal? I was going to assume that this question was about my blog but the next question has me wondering how wide open is this door. Besides you know what they say about people that assume things
    2. Trump supporter? Why or why not? Don’t hate me but no. It is hard to back someone that just talks so crazy. When I try to listen to him speak all I hear is a spoiled rich kid. He can literally say whatever he wants and it makes no difference, someone will agree with him. In your blog when Trump doesn’t visit the Troops you say it was a good thing for him to leave the troops alone. Do you think he did that thinking of the troops or himself?
    3. Are you a Feminist? Yes, if I am hired in the same position that a man could’ve been hired for, I would like the same pay he would get. The roles of the sexes have changed over the years and will continue to change.
    4. What direction do you think the USA is headed? I think it is safe to say that the trend is headed towards more blue than red. That would seem that more people are getting involved in voting.
  1. Have you listened to my podcast yet?

Yes, it is nice to hear the voice behind the words. Your voice allows me to put your energy and personality to what you are talking about.

  1. Why did you decide to follow me?

I live under a rock so it would seem and like to read about what other people think on different topics. You shoot it straight no matter who is reading or listening.

  1. What do you specifically want out of your life?

Call me basic but if I could graduate college, start a career as an adoption worker, get married to a great guy, and have at least two- three kids than I’d say I’ve had a great life.

  1. What would you change about your life?

Procrastination needs to go! I wait last minute to do everything it seems.

  1. What do you think is the most important aspect about life is?

Connection/involvement are the most important aspects in life. I don’t mean the whole let me take a selfie and see how many likes I get, I mean work, family, friends, and blogs keep a person motivated and get a head in life. I’m a strong believer of it’s not what you know it’s who you know.

  1. What are you confessing to on your blog, why the name confessions?

My experiences are my confessions. I’m not a fan of lying so as a habit if I think someone had the wrong idea of what I was saying I’ll say… ok Confession… To be funny one of my coworkers picked up on it and we started a “Confession Sunday Game”. As our confession we would discuss what has happened, what we did, what our spouses did, or what we wanted to happen but hasn’t the past week


1) What’s your biggest confession?

Hmmm…. I’ll probably come up with a really good one the second I post this but for now I’ll have to say that I simply fear the unknown in my relationship. Nothing is more terrifying than thinking that I’m not good enough.
2) What’s your life biggest regret?

College would have to be my biggest regret. I started in 2011 right after I graduated high school and paid more attention to parties than my studies. By time my second year came around I was placed on academic suspension. The number of grants and scholarships wasted those years just kill me to think about.
3) What is your biggest accomplishment?

After 3 days of newly owning the restaurant I was working in the owner promoted me General Manager. The old owner thought I needed an army to come in and change a light bulb for me. So to have this guy that didn’t even know about my work ethic come in and see that I was working my ass off was a great feeling. He said I ran the show while the current GM agreed with everything I said.

4) What made you start this Blog, “Curiosity and Confessions”? What’s your goal with this blog?

So for my blog to be named Curiosity & Confession I took two things Curiosity being my want for knowledge and Confessions being my life experiences. I started writing and always wanted someone to read what I wrote and give me feedback. The goal is to become a better writer over time. I love to go back and read things I have wrote as a kid just to see how far I have come as a writer.

Mr. A

1) How old are you and from what country?

I’m 25 and from America (USA)

Lets play! Ask me anything!

Soooo I stole this from the britchy one whom i will properly tag once im on my computer and not my phone.

In keeping with Rakkelle and Bottomless Coffee I’ve decided to stick with the ‘Ask me anything’ theme. Let’s see where it goes!”

You can ask any questions here in the comments section between now and Sunday and I’ll answer them on Monday.

Im Curious and may have a Confession or two.